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It still allow in the UK to wear anything - no illegal, maybe depend on country, I was wear tights and denim mini skirt that seem to be allow in public Ive wearing many time as cops passing me without stop or ask anything
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Men should wear tights for any reason also protect from blood flow that quite important, I do wear all time, love it. I wear with skirt that nornmal clothes
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My tights rights week

posted Sunday, 4 February 2007
Kajby Kaj

 

Geraden likes when someone writes on his blog. Despite my bad English, writing is for me an important means of existence..

Yesterday we had a party. I filled my stomach with good food and lot of wine, and now my head is totally empty. This time I have nothing profoundly philosophical to say. Let’s sum up this week seen from the tights point of view.

A week ago I applied for membership to the MSN group 'Members if LAUF'. I haven’t got a reply yet, but I still live in the hope of acceptance.

The week started with freezing cold, -25 Celsius degrees. While walking the dog and travelling to work I was wearing two pairs of tights in layers, sheers underneath and opaques above. When arrived to the office I just undressed the opaques. Very practical.

My lovely wife, Mrs Kaj, invited her friends, seven ladies and members of a literature circle to a meeting at our place. Mrs. Kaj asked me kindly to make a small dinner for the gang (Mrs Kaj hates cooking). I agreed. When the ladies arrived I was of course wearing my ordinary uniform, shorts and socks with tights. To my disappointment nobody noticed anything, not even a stolen glance or the slightest admiring or ironical comment. Next time I wear something else, more visible than suntan coloured sheers.

I have picked up and downloaded from Internet a vast amount of pictures of tights related works of art; mainly modern or contemporary. There has to be thousands and thousands of paintings, drawings, installations, collages, videos, performances and of course photos either depicting tights in different constellations or works using tights as medium. It is not so easy to find them, they are nested so deeply on the Internet, but they are lurking there somewhere. Geraden and I have plans to upload a new picture gallery, or art gallery. But the copyright matters might be an obstacle. Maybe a kind letter to each artist would help: ‘Dear Artist, We are a group of tights wearing men…’ Hmmm… Not very convincing.

For some days ago I made friend to the brave tights wearer Eugene on MySpace. http://profile.myspace.com/kaj61

On Friday I went to Stockmanns, the largest department store in Helsinki, to buy two pairs of tights to my daughter. After a couple of weeks she will participate at a convent ball and she is preparing her outfit very carefully. The vendor, a young lady who knows me well from before, wondered why I hadn’t visited the store for a while and asked if I had abandoned tights. I ensured her that I will never abandon neither tights nor the excellent hosiery department at Stockmanns.

On the same afternoon I was tying my shoe strings and had of course to lean forward. At he same time I turned my back and my bottom to my dear colleague Miss. I. The pose revealed my tights and made them very visible at the back. The young Miss I. grabbed the waistband, stretched and released it with a smack. ‘Oh, you are wearing nude tights’, she laughed teasingly. I turned around, looked in her eyes and replied: ‘They are not nude, they are suntans, and there is a huge difference.’

Yesterday we arranged a small dinner for my brother and sister-in-law and their family. Mrs. Kaj made a comment to my outfit saying that the first thing I do when I arrive at home from the work is to switch my pants to shorts and tights. She is completely right. According to her story ‘Kaj has learned this dress code from Geraden, his British tights friend, with whom he shares the same interest and passion to tights.’ That was not true, but I didn’t bother to correct her. Geraden may have the credits.

Happy Sunday,

Kaj

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1. Geraden left...
Sunday, 4 February 2007 11:07 am

Kaj

Yes, Geraden likes it very much when someone else writes for this blog. For two reasons – I don't have to worry what I am going to write, and (more importantly) it brings variety to the blog. I can write easily enough, but I struggle with style to make what I say interesting. My backgrounds are the academic world and the civil service, and I know that both of these show through in the way I write.

Thanks very much for giving an account of a man's everyday life in tights. This is how it should be! No angst, no hang-ups, just acceptance from self, family, friends and colleagues. Notice: self comes first – in this case! If every male tights wearer's week were like this, there would be no need for this blog.

If you are a member of LAUF you should qualify for membership of the MSN Group The Members of LAUF. I do not know what is happening there at the moment. The group is still active, and new photos are being posted all the time, but there have been no new membership approvals since September last year. I will make some enquiries.

I enjoyed the story about Miss I – my colleagues do not know about my wearing, or if they do, they are keeping remarkably quiet. I am not sure I am ready for it yet, anyway.

Keep wearing – and if Mrs Kaj gives you a hard time, feel free to give me the credit!

Geraden


2. Eugene TS Wong left...
Sunday, 4 February 2007 8:16 pm

Hi Kaj.

I enjoy reading your writings too. You seem to have interesting events, and reasonable views.

Thanks for taking the time to write, and thank you especially for writing about me.

--

Sincerely, and with thanks, Eugene T.S. Wong


3. Sheers4fears left...
Sunday, 4 February 2007 10:00 pm

Hi Kaj,

It is always good to hear of your experiences, and how relaxed you are about wearing when your family and friends are there. We can't have visitors very often because my wife is too ill, but I don't think I would be brave enough yet to wear on the few occasions when her parents visit us!

Keep up the good work.

Kind regards, Sheers


4. Kaj left...
Monday, 5 February 2007 7:19 am

Hi again,

Thank you Geraden, Eugene and Sheers4Fears for your kind comments. You can be sure that I enjoy reading about all your experiences and thoughts, I always do. Sheers4, I am sad to hear about your wife. I hope you still will have many happy years together. Eugene, I do like your stories and pictures about openly wearing tights with shorts.

After that I for some years ago decided to step publicly into spotlight in my tights there was no return to the past. Wearing tights openly at home and telling about my nylons to my relatives, colleagues, sponsors, pets, friends, plants and enemies was just a logical consequence of my conviction. Tights are a part of my personality and a hobby, why hide something that is so important and central? Besides, tights are very kind, ordinary, and trivial, they don’t hurt anyone. And they are practical. As the wise Geraden wrote, to be in terms with the self, even to its most fragile parts, is a condition for equilibrium. Life is too short and genuine to be wasted, and life is too absurd and crazy to be taken too seriously.

I have many times been thinking of an own blog. But I am afraid that I am too a busy family man to make it in an adequate way. That’s why I am so happy have the chance to take part in such a marvellous blog as Geraden’s. Thank you!

Kaj, too overwhelmingly eloquent today


5. Irbis2 left...
Tuesday, 6 February 2007 5:44 am

Hey, guy. In you wikipedia article you wrote absolutely nothing about production of men tights in Germany in 60x-70x. That is too bad. Your story puts wrong impression like world was created yesterday. Even Bible tells that it was existing quite a while. Personally I like cotton tights for men. And what? Again nothing?


6. Geraden left...
Tuesday, 6 February 2007 7:19 am

Hi Irbis

You have a good point. Wearing of tights by men did persist unbroken in Germany from the earliest times until about the 1970s.

It is not a subject that I am very familiar with, though I am aware that there is a lot of relevant material (in German) on http://www.deutsches-strumpfmuseum.de. That site also has a lot of illustrations.

Anyone can edit Wikipedia, so if you wish to add a section, feel free to do so. If you do contribute to Wikipedia I hope that your contribution will be a little more polite than we have seen here. If not, it will not last long, I can assure you!

Geraden


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