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~ Martin ~
It still allow in the UK to wear anything - no illegal, maybe depend on country, I was wear tights and denim mini skirt that seem to be allow in public Ive wearing many time as cops passing me without stop or ask anything
~ Doug ~
In the US it's illegal to be dressed indecently, but not illegal to crossdress. Also, where would you draw the line? Some people might claim that all the boys wearing girls skinny jeans are crossdressing.
~ Rod ~
is it legal to crossdress when outside as a female
~ Andy M ~
epilators have been suggested. I've just bought a Braun and done my first epilate session. So far so good, but still a long way from hair free legs (which are essential for any tights wearing!!!)
~ Adrian ~
With winter on the way I shall be cutting down on heating bills by wearing opaque tights with a wool kilt.
~ 2craze2 ~
@badleg: Try Elbeo Sheer Magic or Elbeo Caresse. Size XL is available. They really do help...
~ 2craze2 ~
Ordered some tights from Emilio Cavallini, they're great! Good stretch, warm, opaque. Good replacement for my regular sock-wearing.
~ kingrichards ~
hi guys,new UK bodybuilder here, looks like a decent forum with lots of good info - hopefully i can contribute & learn.
~ Lucky ~
Men should wear tights for any reason also protect from blood flow that quite important, I do wear all time, love it. I wear with skirt that nornmal clothes
~ hoseclad ~
Hi to all, glad to see im not the only one out there,though i was all alone for for a long time. best reguards.

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How I started wearing

posted Wednesday, 13 April 2005
Geradenby Geraden

 

I was born before the tights era. My mother was of the generation that never got round to wearing tights, and I had no sisters. When I was about 11 or 12 years old, a girl in my class at school (I’ll call her Anna) was changing from a games lesson, and I saw she was putting on these stockings that were joined at the top and went all the way up to the waist. I made some comment to Anna about liking her ‘stockings’ and she said “They’re not stockings, silly, they’re tights!” That was my first look at a pair of tights. 

When I was little, I had often seen my mother fussing with her suspenders; but these tights looked a much more sensible idea (like sliced bread). I was fascinated, and have been ever since. I told Anna how much I would like a pair, and she said, “Don’t be silly, boys don’t wear tights!” I was stung by the injustice of that remark.

Anna’s tights were ordinary grey ribbed schoolwear, but I thought they were wonderful. How I wished I could try them on!

Months later I was sent on an errand into the school cellar and came across a pair of black opaque tights in an old lost property box. They were nowhere near as nice as the ones that Anna and the other girls had been wearing to school for winter, let alone as nice as the sheer tights that they were just starting to wear in the summer. These black tights were made of a harsh nylon (no lycra in those days!) without much stretch. Oh, and they smelled musty for being in the cellar. Since beggars can’t be choosers, I borrowed those tights several times and in the end there seemed no point in returning them – no-one except me wanted them, so I hid them away. In the end they came at least 3 inches too short for my growing legs and I had to get rid of them.

Finally when I was 16 I got a holiday job working for the Lewis's department store in Birmingham. Those were the days when stores had large hosiery departments, covering nearly half of a sales floor, but they did not let me work there, and I did not dare to ask! However I bought my own first pair of Berkshire tights there, with staff discount, out of my first wage packet. I think I paid 6/8d.

And I have been proving Anna wrong for years.

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1. pntyhoseftsh left...
Wednesday, 3 August 2005 9:59 pm :: http://pntyhoseftsh.blogspot.com/

Thanks for the inspiration. I wear pantyhose everyday and tights in the winter. Have for over 20 years. I even remove the hair from legs for better comfort. I own approx 150 pairs (I've been busy on Ebay lately) and have anywhere from Legg's to Wolford's in both sheers and tights.

I have to admit I do dabble in XDressing as well but only from the waist down


2. demiplie left...
Saturday, 3 September 2005 11:17 am

Like Geraden I grew up during the days when women moved from stockings to tights.Stockings looked very clumsy things to wear, but tights as I discovered around the age of 10 were quite easy to pull on and felt really good to wear.I had the good fortune to have an older sister who wore tights evey day and I secretly tried on her tights.


3. Justin left...
Tuesday, 6 September 2005 11:49 pm :: http://nylonskin.com

I can’t really remember when I started wearing tights/nylons. All I can really remember is that I have always loved them. My first experience believe it or not was when I was 4 ½ years old. My parents traveled the world because my father was in the military. On a trip to France the airport lost a suite case and well to make a long story short all my clothes were in that case. I only know this story because my mom told me. Being a broke military family my mom had to be resourceful. She quickly made friends with an older woman who just so happened to be watching a small child (and could speak Spanish and French fore my mom’s second language is Spanish). She explained her predicament and the older woman agreed that I need clothes. Well it just so happened that the older lady had a girl and not a boy and all the clothes that she gave my mom happened to be girls clothes. So I lived in France as young girl for a few weeks until my dad sent us a check to buy me some clothes for me. I think that is why I love to wear nylons of all sorts anyways my mom let me wear her old nylons when my dad was not around. So I guess that is how I started. Oh yeah, I was also endowed to that young girl whose clothes I wore for a few weeks in France but she has yet to seek me out any ways I have a lovely girlfriend who just can’t get enough of me in nylons!


4. SleightTrickery left...
Friday, 13 January 2006 8:19 pm

Hi everyone! Just thought I'd add my story about how I became one of us select few men who recognise the practicalities of tights-wearing. Even though I am only 18 I have been wearing for over six years now, but only a few days ago started to wear them for a full day while at college. In primary school we did a production of Cats which required some kind of tail to be worn by each member of the cast. Of course, we were advised a pair of old tights would do the trick if stuffed with some material. Anyhow, a while after the production I found my “tail” in a drawer and decided to try “it” on in the way that it was originally meant. It was great because my legs were kept warm and I didn’t have to keep pulling up my socks. Of course I was ashamed of this because I thought I may be abnormal and not accepted, so I made sure my parents didn’t see. Last year I decided to buy my own pair (I had taken one of my mum’s as the old “tail” had become too short!) and got 3 Nude 15D pairs and wore them quite a lot without being noticed. I bought a few pairs today in the sales (it’s great to buy them when you have the confidence) and intend to keep doing so while at university - Yorkshire gets rather cold in the winter so there’s a good excuse! Anyway, I know this is a long story but I thought it may interest a few of you! Keep up the good work Geraden in promoting this item of clothing.


5. Geraden left...
Friday, 13 January 2006 9:00 pm

Well done, Sleight! You seem to have managed much better than I did when I was your age. But that was before the Internet, when I had no means of knowing I was not the only one to love tights.

Sheers are lovely, but for Yorkshire in the winter I would recommend opaques! Being married to a Yorkie lass, I know how cold it can be!

Best wishes

Geraden


6. stocking guy left...
Saturday, 25 February 2006 2:50 am

I also started wearing stockings and garter belts and thongs, what a weight off my chest ,knowing other guys like to wear stockings as I do. My wife fully enjoys my wearing lingerie, she says she realy gets off good while I wear them. The stockings make my legs look sexy. They feel so good on that on some days I put them in the morning and don`t take them off until after sex. This evening when she came in from work, I met her at the door wearing stay up black stockings an my high heels. Needless to say she was thrilled. {edited for content} I realy like wearing lingerie, but I am glad to know that other guys like this too. P.S. I am wearing a white garter belt and black stockings as I write.


7. mkc65 left...
Sunday, 26 February 2006 9:51 pm

Thank you very much for the kind words you left on my blog. It means a lot to me. You have a great site! It looks very well put together.

Take care.

mkc65


8. Geraden left...
Sunday, 26 February 2006 11:30 pm

Welcome to my blog. Glad you like it! Seeing how others are dealing with their love of hosiery is a great help, I think.

Geraden


9. huey left...
Wednesday, 1 March 2006 7:45 pm

i started wearing panty hose when i was 12. my family went to spain, and on of the evening dinners was a costume party. my costume included a yellow pair of tights. when i put them on, i fell in love. I am now 45 years old, married with 3 kids age 20 to 15. i have been wearing panty hose from age 12. my wife knows about my fetish but it annoys her. i wear panty hose most days, year round. one of my favorite way to wear panty hose is with shorts and open toe shoes and go shopping in a mall. i normally go into a shoe store that has a lady salesperson and ask to try on some shoes. she quickly realizes that i am wearing shorts and pantyhose. most times it ends up with us talking about it. my best story was once the lady went into the back and came out with her husband. here i was sitting there with my shoes off and she brought her husband over and said, look honey, this guy is wearing panty hose, i find it very sexy. why don;t you go down to the department store and buy us both a pair to wear. to my amazement off he went. ... needless to say i visit that shoe store alot. and yes the husband is always wearing panty hose. he even thanked me the last time for showing his wife.


10. Geraden left...
Wednesday, 1 March 2006 9:59 pm

Nice story, Huey. Thank you for sharing it. Like yours, my wife dislikes me wearing, but there has to be give and take in marriage, so we reach a compromise. I am rarely seen in public in tights (ph) with her, and then always in the least visible nude sheers. Mostly I cover up with long trousers when I am out with my wife and family.

I hope you will visit my blog again - Geraden.


11. richardcruz44 left...
Monday, 23 February 2009 8:23 pm

In China most people in cities live in apartments/condominiums, and kids play in groups in and out of those residential buildings. When I was about 8-10 years old (I don't have a good memory for the past, but that enables me to always learn new things fast) one of my neighbors, who's a girl about my age, got a pair of tights and put them on. At that time tights were a novelty there and we all gathered around in her house to look at her tights. They were red tights, medium thickness and quite stretchy. She (or her parents) thought tights were just pants with socks attached, so she put them on with her boxer underwear underneath. It looked funny because her boxer were loose so with the tights on it became all wrinkled up, and so she has a very irregular top portion of tights. She played outside wearing tights like this often.

I really liked to look at her in tights, and I asked my parents if I could get a pair of tights too. They just told me we could sow your long john's up with socks, but it would be inconvenient if you want to just take of socks to wash your feet. So I never got a pair. Later at school I saw another girl with red socks on her ankles, the texture of the sock looked like tights, but she had regular pants on so I couldn't tell if they were tights or just knee highs. I asked my parents a few times, a couple times they said those were only for girls, and later just played deft to my requests. Once in my adolescence I took a new pair of pantyhose from my mother's drawer and tried them on. It was a thin one and a little short for me. I like opaque ones. It felt good but not ideal. I took if off and tried to stuff it back into the package and return to my mom's drawer so she wouldn't notice, but once worn, the tights could never return to the unused shape. I just had to steal it. Later she was looking around for her tights and said she missed a pair. I said nothing and she forgot it.

When I reached adulthood I was finally able to purchase my own tights. I had to pretend to buy them for my girlfriend. Once I had to ask if the size was right, and the sales lady said, they are stretchy and could fit someone as tall as you (she probably figured I was buying them for myself). But very often they were not tall enough for me so I had to cut the ends open to let my feet through, and used them as a regular underwear.

As much as I loved to wear them with shorts, I did not dare to do so unless I was alone at home, or in the evening just around the neighborhood. And I always kept attention on girls in tights. Once I saw a girl on a bus. It was a hot day and she wanted some fresh air, so she pulled her skirt up a little so she wouldn't sit on her skirt. I saw the reinforced part of her pantyhose on the side of her hip. That was quite a sight for me. Some girls rode bikes with mini skirts and pantyhose, and I would ride in the opposite direction just to get a glimpse of what's up there. And once I spotted a boy around 10-12 walking on the street with his parents wearing the red tights just like my childhood neighbor did. Lucky for him, I said to myself.

After college I went to Europe for my graduate degree and later I started and run a successful business in the US. I kept wearing tights either under pants or under shorts when I was alone. I never had the courage to wear them openly. But for the past few years, as I build up more confidence in myself, I started wearing them openly in public. I started with tights and shorts at gym late at night, when there were very few people around. I always waited till no one was in the locker room to change. If the locker room was crowded for too long, I would leave the gym to go home. But gradually as I get more and more used to it, I started changing in front of others. Now I wear tights under my running short even at the busiest time of the gym. I take group exercise classes such as step, Pilates, and Yoga in tights and shorts.

I should say that I do get some pointing and giggling from young kids sometimes. But do I let them dictate my feelings? No way. I remember the first time I entered a swimming pool in the US wearing my Speedo swimwear, everyone turned around to look at me as if I was some kind of freak. Kids were pointing and giggling. Later my American friends told me no one wears that kind of swimwear unless you are in a swim competition. But that kind of swimwear is not just norm, it is even mandatory in European and Chinese swimming pools. Today I still wear my Speedo to the pool, and I wear tights under shorts.

Societal acceptance takes time, but someone needs to start it.


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