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It still allow in the UK to wear anything - no illegal, maybe depend on country, I was wear tights and denim mini skirt that seem to be allow in public Ive wearing many time as cops passing me without stop or ask anything
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Advice for New Wearers - III

posted Sunday, 30 October 2005
Geradenby Geraden

 

Putting on tights is easy, well it is with a little practice!

But before you do so, make sure that your hands and feet have no rough skin or nails. The sheerer the hosiery you are putting on, the more important it is for your hands and feet to be smooth. Men are traditionally less careful about such things than women, though many of us are catching up. You should invest in a foot file to remove rough skin – the edges of the heels and around the tops of the nails are the worst places. They must be smooth and soft. Check the back of the heels too, while you are at it.

Cut your toenails short with a pair of toenail clippers. Cutting the nails square, supposedly to avoid ingrown nails, is not necessary. You cut your fingernails round, yes? When did you last get an ingrown fingernail? Cut the toenails round to the top of the nail sheath, and then smooth all the edges with a nail file. Go over the tops of your toes with the foot file to remove the hard skin at the top of the nail sheath. Remember that toenails can sharpen themselves and may need re-smoothing even before they need cutting. If you still have hard skin anywhere on your feet, use a moisturiser. Remember, you are protecting your investment in tights!

Ger's kit

Make sure if possible that your hands are as smooth as your feet should be. You might have little choice about this, but if you work with your hands, use protective gloves, barrier creams etc at work as much as possible.

If after all you cannot make your hands smooth enough, or you are going to wear a very sheer pair of tights, you can cover your hands with a thin pair of gloves when putting on tights. Surgical gloves will do at a pinch, and if they are too clingy, put a little talc on them. Purpose made hosiery gloves are available. A pair of pop socks on your hands or the legs from an old pair of tights will also protect the tights as you put them on. (Thanks to my friend Sal for that tip.)

I nearly forgot: Please shave your legs!! Why?

  • Tights feel better on shaved legs
  • Hairs look ugly under tights
  • Hairs help to pull tights down.

If the tights are new it helps to pre-stretch them. Stretch them lengthways as far as you can by holding the waistband in one hand and both tights feet in the other. Widthways stretching can be done later while you are putting them on.

Most people find it easiest to sit for the first part of putting on tights. (I am in the minority of people who do the whole thing standing up.) Put on each leg separately as far as the knee. To do this put your thumbs inside a leg of the tights and the rest of your hand outside, work your two thumbs gently down the tube, making sure you do not twist the leg as you do so. In the end you will have your thumbs in the toe of the tights leg and the material all concertina'd up. (At this stage you can pre-stretch the tights widthways by gently pulling your hands apart.)

Now carefully put your toes between your thumbs, and very gently pull up the leg, letting the material out as you go. The secret is to stretch the material the right amount. When you have got as far as the knee, let go and do exactly the same with the other leg of the tights.

Now stand up! That is the tricky part, as you are more likely to fall over at this point than at any other. Now you have to get the fabric up to the top of your legs!  Put one thumb into each leg, holding the gathered fabric with your fingers and bring your hands up slowly. As you do so, move your hands from side to side around the legs and let out the material as before.  Do not panic if the tights do not go all the way up at this stage, particularly if they are new. Pull the panty part of the tights up as far as it will go over your lower body.

The chances of a perfect fit at this stage are small, but do not despair. Now help the material up your legs, one leg at a time. To do this, grip a leg gently with both hands near the ankle and slide your hands up the leg to the top. If your hands are bare, give them a bit more friction by moistening them with tap water. Alternatively, your surgical gloves will help. The water (or latex) will provide friction to help to pull the material up without tearing it. (I do not think proper hosiery gloves would work so well at this stage.) It is important at this stage to avoid gripping the fabric between finger and thumb and pulling. If the fit is still not good, flex your ankles and knees a bit, and then repeat.

Hopefully you will now be wearing a pair of tights that fit you well. Good luck – it gets easier with practice. Expect the odd disaster, especially in the early days. It is best to start with heavier denier tights before moving on to sheerer ones. It is only quite recently that I have felt confident in putting on 6 denier ultra sheers!

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1. jamod left...
Monday, 31 October 2005 9:36 am

Here's my tip for rough hands: buy 'Neutrogena' Norwegian Formula unscented/concentrated hand cream. This is available from any high-street supermarket. I've tried many hand creams, but this one is the best. Applied to your hands each night before retiring (and over several days) ensures the eradication of dry/rough skin.

Adding to the comment about pulling-up your sheer or opaque tights without damaging them: when you have your tights on completely, soak your hands, then dry until your hands are damp. With your hands open flat, and from the bottom of your legs and with hands placed firmly either side of a leg, ride your hands up your legs. The friction of your damp hands combined with applying moderate hand pressure on your tights pulls up your tights without any damage (so long as you don't have rough skin on your hands).

Alternatively, especially now the colder weather is approaching, buy M&S 100 Denier cotton-rich tights (available in black or brown). These aren't as delicate as sheer tights, but the advantage is that these are sufficiently heavy that they can be worn without wearing socks over the top if you're concerned about people noticing. Anyone will think you are wearing everyday socks - if they even bother to look, that is. To increase the density, I wear black opaque knee-highs/pop-sox under such tights - and they add and extra layer to ward off the cold.

Once you're confident about wearing such cotton tights, I would suggest progressing on to opaque tights first and then sheer tights - or just enjoy the comfort of trying them all.


2. Geraden left...
Monday, 31 October 2005 1:39 pm

Thanks, Jamod, for explaining in more detail the method of adjusting the fit of tights using the friction of damp hands. You are quite right that your hands have to be smooth in order to do this – a good point that I had missed.

I am not sure what hand cream I used to use – I think it was Vaseline Intensive Care in a plunger top bottle. I rarely need to use anything like that now, because I wear gloves for all manual tasks. They save blisters too!

Not sure about 100 den cotton rich tights – they sound as though they would cling quite badly to trousers. I used to swear by M&S Silky Soft Opaques. They are so smooth that you get virtually no cling and they were just opaque enough to wear without socks if you preferred. I liked them so much that I eventually persuaded my friend Sal of tights-excite.com to try them. (She is a sheers girl and does not care much for opaques at the best of times.)

I bought her a pair that came in the newer coat-hanger style of packaging. She tried them and told me that she did not like them because they were uneven in colour. This never happened with the older ones in the cardboard packs, of which I fortunately have a good supply. The SSO's seem to have gone off since M&S introduced the coat-hanger packs, and now I notice that the denier has been reduced from 50 to 40, which I take to be another bad sign.

Thanks for your support of this site, by the way. I think you are officially our top commentator! If you would ever like to post as a guest contributor, just drop me an email.


3. Geraden left...
Thursday, 19 January 2006 6:22 pm

UPDATE 19.01.2006

I have just come across a wonderful web page on the subject of putting on tights. It is on the Shapings.com site, click here. The photos are good hi-resolution ones too.

Geraden


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